Chapter 44—Care Of Little Children
      
      
        Correct Attitudes for the Nursing Mother—The best food for
      
      
        the infant is the food that nature provides. Of this it should not be
      
      
        needlessly deprived. It is a heartless thing for a mother, for the sake
      
      
        of convenience or social enjoyment, to seek to free herself from the
      
      
        tender office of nursing her little one
      
      
      
      
        The period in which the infant receives its nourishment from the
      
      
        mother is critical. Many mothers, while nursing their infants, have
      
      
        been permitted to overlabor and to heat their blood in cooking; and the
      
      
        nursling has been seriously affected, not only with fevered nourishment
      
      
        from the mother’s breast, but its blood has been poisoned by the
      
      
        unhealthy diet of the mother, which has fevered her whole system,
      
      
        thereby affecting the food of the infant. The infant will also be affected
      
      
        by the condition of the mother’s mind. If she is unhappy, easily
      
      
        agitated, irritable, giving vent to outbursts of passion, the nourishment
      
      
        the infant receives from its mother will be inflamed, often producing
      
      
        colic, spasms, and in some instances causing convulsions and fits.
      
      
        The character also of the child is more or less affected by the nature
      
      
        of the nourishment received from the mother. How important then that
      
      
        the mother, while nursing her infant, should preserve a happy state of
      
      
        mind, having the perfect control of her own spirit. By thus doing, the
      
      
        food of the child is not injured, and the calm, self-possessed course the
      
      
        mother pursues in the treatment of her child has very much to do in
      
      
        molding the mind of the infant. If it is nervous and easily agitated, the
      
      
        mother’s careful, unhurried manner will have a soothing and correcting
      
      
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        influence, and the health of the infant can be very much improved
      
      
      
      
        The more quiet and simple the life of the child, the more favorable
      
      
        it will be to both physical and mental development. At all times the
      
      
        mother should endeavor to be quiet, calm, and self-possessed
      
      
      
      
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         The Ministry of Healing, 383
      
      
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         Counsels on Diet and Foods, 228
      
      
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         The Ministry of Healing, 381
      
      
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