Chapter 29—A Work That Cannot Be Transferred
      
      
        Parental Responsibilities Which No One Else Can Bear—
      
      
        Parents, you carry responsibilities that no one can bear for you. As
      
      
        long as you live, you are accountable to God to keep His way.... Par-
      
      
        ents who make the word of God their guide, and who realize how
      
      
        much their children depend upon them for the characters they form,
      
      
        will set an example that it will be safe for their children to follow
      
      
      
      
        Fathers and mothers are responsible for the health, the constitution,
      
      
        the development of the character of their children. No one else should
      
      
        be left to see to this work. In becoming the parents of children, it
      
      
        devolves upon you to co-operate with the Lord in educating them in
      
      
        sound principles
      
      
      
      
        How sad it is that many parents have cast off their God-given
      
      
        responsibility to their children, and are willing that strangers should
      
      
        bear it for them! They are willing that others should labor for their
      
      
        children and relieve them of all burden in the matter
      
      
      
      
        Many who are now bemoaning the waywardness of their children
      
      
        have only themselves to blame. Let these look to their Bibles and see
      
      
        what God enjoins upon them as parents and guardians. Let them take
      
      
        up their long-neglected duties. They need to humble themselves and
      
      
        to repent before God for their neglect to follow His directions in the
      
      
        training of their children. They need to change their own course of
      
      
        action and to follow the Bible strictly and carefully as their guide and
      
      
        counselor
      
      
      
      
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        The Church Alone Cannot Assume These Responsibilities—
      
      
        Oh, that the youth and children would give their hearts to Christ! What
      
      
        an army might then be raised up to win others to righteousness! But
      
      
        parents should not leave this work for the church to do alone
      
      
      
      
        1
      
      
         Letter 356, 1907
      
      
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        2
      
      
         Manuscript 126, 1897
      
      
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         The Review and Herald, October 25, 1892
      
      
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         Manuscript 57, 1897
      
      
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        5
      
      
         The Signs of the Times, August 13, 1896
      
      
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