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        Let Each Help the Other—The family firm is a sacred, social
      
      
        society, in which each member is to act a part, each helping the other.
      
      
        The work of the household is to move smoothly, like the different parts
      
      
        of well-regulated machinery
      
      
      
      
        Every member of the family should realize that a responsibility
      
      
        rests upon him individually to do his part in adding to the comfort,
      
      
        order, and regularity of the family. One should not work against an-
      
      
        other. All should unitedly engage in the good work of encouraging one
      
      
        another; they should exercise gentleness, forbearance, and patience;
      
      
        speak in low, calm tones, shunning confusion; and each doing his
      
      
        utmost to lighten the burdens of the mother....
      
      
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        Each member of the family should understand just the part he is
      
      
        expected to act in union with the others. All, from the child six years
      
      
        old and upward, should understand that it is required of them to bear
      
      
        their share of life’s burdens
      
      
      
      
        A Fitting Resolve—I must grow in grace at home and wherever I
      
      
        may be, in order to give moral power to all my actions. At home I must
      
      
        guard my spirit, my actions, my words. I must give time to personal
      
      
        culture, to training and educating myself in right principles. I must be
      
      
        an example to others. I must meditate upon the word of God night and
      
      
        day and bring it into my practical life. The sword of the Spirit, which
      
      
        is the word of God, is the only sword which I can safely use
      
      
      
      
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        9
      
      
         Manuscript 129, 1903
      
      
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        10
      
      
         Testimonies For The Church 2, 699, 700
      
      
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        11
      
      
         Manuscript 13, 1891
      
      
        .